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On the road to becoming a unicorn, you need to go backwards to make progress.
As we get older, we forget how to fall down, how to play, how to explore and be curious - and these are necessary skills to becoming the best unicorn you can be. 
Most recently I’m diving into two new technologies - distributed databases and javascript and I invite you to join me and my inner child, who really wants to be a unicorn, as we explore rainbows, build mountains, and tear it all down again with joy, curiosity, and eagerness. I will provide specific examples, from using editors to troubleshooting issues, and conclude with practical recommendations on getting started, becoming a unicorn, and conquering the world.
           
          
          
          
            
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              You on the road to conquering the world.
            
            
            
              You need to regress or get in touch with your inner child
            
            
            
              to make progress. I know what you're thinking right
            
            
            
              now. Do I want to conquer the world?
            
            
            
              Of course you do. And now you might be
            
            
            
              thinking, but my inner child is pretty messed up.
            
            
            
              Totally fair. Mine two. But your inner
            
            
            
              child is also incredibly wise.
            
            
            
              They know how to fall down and get back up,
            
            
            
              how to be brave, how to play,
            
            
            
              and how to explore and be curious. I'm rain
            
            
            
              Leander, developer advocate with cockroach labs.
            
            
            
              And today I would like you to use a child's
            
            
            
              mindset for growth, to embrace your inner child,
            
            
            
              to become the beautiful unicorn I know you are,
            
            
            
              and yes, to conquer the world.
            
            
            
              Who here knows how to ride a bike? Raise your hand
            
            
            
              if you're in the Netherlands. You've known how to ride a bike possibly
            
            
            
              since birth. But most of us learn at some point in
            
            
            
              our childhood. Unless you haven't.
            
            
            
              Unfortunately, if you don't learn how to ride a bike when you're a child,
            
            
            
              it is infinitely harder to learn. And not because
            
            
            
              our brains have shifted, but because at some point,
            
            
            
              some shitty person laughed when we fell down.
            
            
            
              And we develop this aversion to failure.
            
            
            
              We don't want to fall. We don't want to mess up.
            
            
            
              We don't want to be embarrassed. And when we're trying
            
            
            
              something new, we wants to instantly be the
            
            
            
              best. I've got news for you.
            
            
            
              When you're trying something new, you will not be the best.
            
            
            
              You are not a secret ninja if you have never taken any ninja
            
            
            
              training classes. You will not win the Tour de France if
            
            
            
              you've never learned to ride a bike. But you could,
            
            
            
              as long as you get back up.
            
            
            
              Because it is absolutely guaranteed that you will fall down.
            
            
            
              You will fail, you will mess up, you will
            
            
            
              make mistakes, and that is beautiful and
            
            
            
              totally fine. Fall down.
            
            
            
              It's part of life. And then get back up,
            
            
            
              child. I am asking you to embrace your inner child today.
            
            
            
              Maybe this analogy doesn't fit as well as the rest,
            
            
            
              because bravery is not something we're born
            
            
            
              with. It's something we develop. And from what I've
            
            
            
              seen with a seven year old and a pair of four year
            
            
            
              olds, children are not the bravest creatures.
            
            
            
              Because becoming brave is hard. Sometimes it
            
            
            
              feels impossible. Being brave
            
            
            
              is not a lack of fear. It's moving
            
            
            
              forward despite that fear.
            
            
            
              But if it's overwhelming, here are some baby steps. Two.
            
            
            
              Becoming more brave.
            
            
            
              Embrace that vulnerability.
            
            
            
              Admit you have fear.
            
            
            
              Do it anyway. And when you fall down,
            
            
            
              get back up. Nothing is
            
            
            
              impossible. Every big scary monster or
            
            
            
              dragon or problem can be broken down into manageable,
            
            
            
              bite sized pieces. And the key is to start.
            
            
            
              Listen to that fear inside of you.
            
            
            
              Acknowledge it. Admit it.
            
            
            
              Take a few minutes to make a plan and then do the plan.
            
            
            
              Just in case you're one of those skeptics who doesn't believe
            
            
            
              in the importance of play, I'd like to introduce you to
            
            
            
              the National Institution for Play, which gathers research
            
            
            
              from diverse play scientists and practitioners to prove
            
            
            
              that play is good for your physical and mental health. It increases
            
            
            
              harmony and effectiveness of relationship, it optimizes
            
            
            
              learning and it encourages innovation.
            
            
            
              How many here now want to become a play scientist?
            
            
            
              When we're children, play is built into our daily
            
            
            
              structure. But as we get older, there's less recess, no more
            
            
            
              breaks, and fewer naps,
            
            
            
              which is bullshit. These moments of play,
            
            
            
              of engaging in activity for enjoyment and recreation
            
            
            
              rather than a serious or practical purpose,
            
            
            
              are instrumental to enjoying life. Two becoming
            
            
            
              a unicorn and to conquering the world.
            
            
            
              Now, sadly, I can't tell you how
            
            
            
              two play. This depends entirely on
            
            
            
              you. What you enjoy doing for fun. Do that
            
            
            
              when it's not fun anymore, it's time to find a new fun
            
            
            
              thing to do. Now, sure,
            
            
            
              I can give you some ideas like baking cookies and
            
            
            
              sharing them with me. But most
            
            
            
              importantly, book the time on your calendar and
            
            
            
              these go play.
            
            
            
              It is absolutely possible to live your life sitting in
            
            
            
              your room doing the same thing day in and day out.
            
            
            
              But why?
            
            
            
              Im so glad you asked. Literally from
            
            
            
              birth, people are explorers, exploring surroundings,
            
            
            
              environment, relationships, limitations,
            
            
            
              potential. And what does this do? And how does that work?
            
            
            
              And what happens if I do this?
            
            
            
              To stop exploring is to stop being true to yourself.
            
            
            
              And the key to exploration is to stay curious.
            
            
            
              Curiosity pushes you to explore, yes, but also
            
            
            
              to network, to solve problems,
            
            
            
              to recognize and take advantage of opportunities,
            
            
            
              and to lead a happier life.
            
            
            
              But how? There are many
            
            
            
              paths to achieve an exploration
            
            
            
              can explorer's mindset.
            
            
            
              Mine includes being curious,
            
            
            
              listening a lot,
            
            
            
              ask questions a lot,
            
            
            
              avoid dysfunction, listen.
            
            
            
              Embrace learning as fun. Develop a
            
            
            
              beginner's mind. And please don't forget
            
            
            
              to listen.
            
            
            
              Here's a little secret. Come closer,
            
            
            
              a little closer.
            
            
            
              You are a unicorn already
            
            
            
              this label unicorn is a euphemism for
            
            
            
              being unique and fabulous and extra. And you.
            
            
            
              And if Dr. Seuss is to be believed, no one in
            
            
            
              the world is youer than you. And they're right.
            
            
            
              All of the experiences you've had in your lifetime, your education,
            
            
            
              your background, your ups, your downs, whatever brought you here to
            
            
            
              this talk today at this conference, no one
            
            
            
              else has that reality. Your experience,
            
            
            
              your truth, your existence and
            
            
            
              understanding. That is what makes
            
            
            
              you a unicorn.
            
            
            
              The neat part about all of this is if you follow those other steps,
            
            
            
              you will conquer the world. It's inherent in
            
            
            
              the steps. Be willing two fall down and get back
            
            
            
              up. Be brave,
            
            
            
              play, explore and be
            
            
            
              curious. Be the beautiful unicorn
            
            
            
              I know you are and you will conquering the
            
            
            
              worlds. It thank you.
            
            
            
              Many thanks to comp 42 python
            
            
            
              organizer, organizers and sponsors.
            
            
            
              If you have any questions, comments or just want to
            
            
            
              stay in touch, feel free. I am rain Leander on most
            
            
            
              media. Thank you so
            
            
            
              much.